We are offered unlimited life paths, with so many forks in our roads. Bountiful chances to stray, play, grow and show just who we are. These choices define exactly who we are. If we truly accept that we do indeed have all these choices, and believe that we can follow any path we like, we are free in spirit. When we search our heart and soul to discover who we really are, we can make conscious choices to follow our values.
I had to start with empowerment. Conscious or not, EVERYTHING we do is a choice. How powerful! So I am responsible for who I am. No one else did it. They did do everything they did. I chose, often passively, reactively, irrationally, emotionally, defensively, selfishly and/or irresponsibly, how to respond or act. These are lessons, whether I learned them or not. They tend to repeat themselves.
So the troubles I’ve faced resulted from choices I’ve made. Likewise for the sobriety, growth, peacefulness, acceptance, joy and gratitude. I know in my heart that when I make the best choices I can, with as much faith, honesty and humility as I can muster, life will go better than if I reverted to making choices based on greed, pride, lust and fear. The details make the story fun. Every step we take is on the biggest stage of all. It’s almost always “take one.” There are few Mulligans, do-overs or re-takes. It seems like a good idea to be on our best behavior!